I hear it nonstop. “Kids are expensive.” It gets very old. I’m not sure if it is more annoying from people who don’t have kids or people with older kids.
I have to hold my tongue because I could easily turn around and say, “your 4,000 square foot house with 2 people is expensive” or “your brand new $30k+ car is expensive.”
Everyone chooses to spend their money differently and that’s ok. What matters is spending with purpose and on things that bring value.
Which brings me to my next point…kids are expensive…oops
Don’t get me wrong, the top of my list of things I wanted during my life was to be a dad. That doesn’t change the fact that kids are going to add to the budget. I want to share some of the things we do to help our rugrats be less expensive.
Box coloring station
I’m not sure who created this one, if it was the wife or I out of pure laziness and boredom or our son being awesome. When you have kids you seem to have a lot of boxes. They make the best coloring stations. When Mini Donut was as tall as one of the boxes he would stand at it and color to his heart’s content. Now we break them down and make coloring mats.
Best part, when they fill up you grab a new one and recycle the old. We don’t even have to go and buy a new coloring book.
Garage sale toys
Mini Donut’s favorite toys are either hand me downs or from garage sales. Kids don’t get the high from buying stuff like adults do. They just get excited for something different.
MD loves to use his $2 vacuum while we are vacuuming the house or he pretends to mow the lawn with his $3 plastic lawnmower (on the driveway) when we are outside. (Now to keep that excitement when he is old enough to do it for real 😂)
Thrift shop clothes
If you buy clothes at a regular retail you paid way too much. PJs for $2.50 each, shirts for $2. Hard to beat that at retail even with coupons!
Bring something next time to donate at Goodwill and you will get a coupon!
Others People’s Junk
Some may have read the tale of the Babies R Us stranger. That is rare but you can still find other people giving stuff away.
This trick I learned from my dad. People are willing to throw anything away.
Our neighbors had an old power wheels Jeep sitting at the end of their driveway for a few days (no sign and the trash haulers wouldn’t grab it). I went and asked what was going on with it. “Oh nothing. Just thought it would go with the trash.” I asked, “any thing wrong with it? Does it need a new battery?” “Nope it works. Why? Do you want it?”
….uhhhh yeah! $250 saved!
My parents have picked up slides and play houses much the same way.
Facebook Mom’s Group
Craigslist can get sketchy and sometimes down right scary (before you judge I sold my car on it) but there are Facebook groups you can join to sell your old kids stuff. You can get really nice stuff and people don’t seem to flake out as much.
Homemade Apple Sauce
Making your own foods can be much healthier, cheaper, and you can tailor it to your tastes.
Slow Cooker Apple Sauce
- 4 Large Honey crisp apples
- 2 Tbsp fake lemon juice (or 1 real lemon)
- 1/2 Tsp Cinnamon
- 1 Tsp Vanilla
- 1 Tbsp Brown sugar
- 1/3 Cup Water
Skin, core, and cut your apples into eighths.
Plop the pieces into your crockpot.
Add the juice from the lemon, and the water.
Pour in the vanilla, and add the cinnamon and brown sugar.
Cover and cook on low for 4-6 hours. When the apples are super tender, mash with a potato masher or large fork.
Any time MD is sick or teething we grab a mesh feeder (we got from a FB group), throw a frozen banana in and he goes crazy. Also frozen grapes are a great summer treat on a hot day!
Old School Cloth Diapers
This one we got from Ms Blue Ribbon’s friend at MD’s baby shower. Normal burp rags are tiny, expensive and not absorbent. Pick up a pack of the Gerber prefold cloth diapers (<- NOT an affiliate link) and your life will be better.
MD spit up a lot when he was little and these rags were a Godsend. Now that he is older he uses them to wipe his nose. Our plan for them when he is done is use them for cleaning.
I can sort of understand buying books (I’d rather get the Kindle version from the library) but books about parenting isn’t something to buy. They go out of date quickly and you don’t need them very long before you need the next one in the next age bracket.
We also test out new children books from the library before we buy them. We have avoided many duds this way.
Ms. Blue Ribbon loved talking MD to story time when she was staying at home. They would also do things like Early Childhood Family Education. I’m not sure if this is available in all areas but is in Minnesota.
The best resource for free events is your community calendar. We have done the Fire Station open house 🚒🚒🚒🚒🚒🚒!!!!! The community works department also did an open house where kids could do activities, see the equipment and go on rides.
Coming up is an event where they give out kites, have games and even plan on a 🚒! MD loves Fire Trucks!
What do you do to stay frugal with kids? Have you tried anything from my list or plan to?